"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where do i stand?

Specter610

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hi, gentlemen

I haven't posted much on forums; i've mostly just been reading and seeing what u guys have had to say. After starting to read the forums every now and then for about 4 months i recently finished reading the mystery method (amazing). But anyways, i wanted to see what u guys had to say about my situation. Im in a big group of friends in college and recently an hb8 has been throwing me a lot of ioi's. Example, we were at a basketball game and she stood next to me for the game and continuosly touched me, laughed at me, and smiled at me. I answered during a big play by giving her a big hug to see what she thought of it. She continued to throw the ioi's afterwards. The funny thing is that we haven't talked a whole lot. She always smiles and acknowledges me, however, when i talk to our group of friends as a whole. I want to get into direct conversation with her but im not sure how to start. Is she interested in me? Should i go in with the negs/dhv so i can make sure i have genuine interest? This is one of the first girls ive really wanted to game since i read the MM so i want to get off to a good start. Thanks and cheers. Btw, recently for another bball game she asked me to save a seat for her but she came to the game late and didnt end up sitting with me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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She likes you. So, go in for the kill. Use kino back at her, talk about her, get her number, set up dates.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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No need to over think this one. She is showing good signs. Just be confident, keep a positive attitude and get to know her more. Have fun with her like a good friend. Strike the iron while its still hot!
 
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