"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where do i stand?

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hi, gentlemen

I haven't posted much on forums; i've mostly just been reading and seeing what u guys have had to say. After starting to read the forums every now and then for about 4 months i recently finished reading the mystery method (amazing). But anyways, i wanted to see what u guys had to say about my situation. Im in a big group of friends in college and recently an hb8 has been throwing me a lot of ioi's. Example, we were at a basketball game and she stood next to me for the game and continuosly touched me, laughed at me, and smiled at me. I answered during a big play by giving her a big hug to see what she thought of it. She continued to throw the ioi's afterwards. The funny thing is that we haven't talked a whole lot. She always smiles and acknowledges me, however, when i talk to our group of friends as a whole. I want to get into direct conversation with her but im not sure how to start. Is she interested in me? Should i go in with the negs/dhv so i can make sure i have genuine interest? This is one of the first girls ive really wanted to game since i read the MM so i want to get off to a good start. Thanks and cheers. Btw, recently for another bball game she asked me to save a seat for her but she came to the game late and didnt end up sitting with me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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She likes you. So, go in for the kill. Use kino back at her, talk about her, get her number, set up dates.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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No need to over think this one. She is showing good signs. Just be confident, keep a positive attitude and get to know her more. Have fun with her like a good friend. Strike the iron while its still hot!
 
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