"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where do I go from here?

G Rambo34

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Met this girl last night. today i did the whole facebook thing. started exchanging messages, all seems well. then i make a comment about something she said and ALSO ask if there is a screen name that i could reach her at. all she replies back with is a comment about the comment i made about her comment, NOTHING about her screen name. wtf. so here iam left now, to either pursue her sn once again or just go on and act like it never happened and just continue things normally. what would you guys do any why?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aureliano

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If it were me, I would simply type to her:

"I asked you a question and if you refuse to answer it, we will get a divorce."
 

WaRpEd

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Review the bible

Don't waste perfectly good conversation opportunities on facebook. At least try and limit its use.

You've known her all of two days and your already stumped? Quit worrying, And consider taking her somewhere real instead of trying to digitally mack on her all day. Not that theirs nothing to it, but you can't hold eye contact with her, theirs not touching, no smiling, no REAL connection.
 
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