Met this girl last night. today i did the whole facebook thing. started exchanging messages, all seems well. then i make a comment about something she said and ALSO ask if there is a screen name that i could reach her at. all she replies back with is a comment about the comment i made about her comment, NOTHING about her screen name. wtf. so here iam left now, to either pursue her sn once again or just go on and act like it never happened and just continue things normally. what would you guys do any why?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where do I go from here?
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