"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pvf94

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Seeing as to how you fella's love solving my problems....got another for ya....:rock:

So ive been hangin out with a girl here and there....the one I have been posting about as of recently**

She get's on aim...im's me...we bull**** about the last outing we had. (caused havoc at walmart)

She than inform's me that she and another guy that I knew she has been hangin out with where sitting there and they both drank 45 shots of beer....:whistle:

I replied with "haha, drinkin buddies?"

She replied with "Dating"

I replied "tighttttt"

She replied "bootyyyy"

I proceeded to tell her id be back in a few.....I changed online status to afk and left and didnt come back.

After her willingingly wanting to hangout with me and all this **** I dunno, im kinda bummed out about the whole "dating" thing she said. But...I dont know if I should pursue or just let things go with that one....I can but it would be a shame I liked her :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thomas94305

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For starters, you can't count on her for anything now (sorry). Be sure you are talking with other women, generating other options. Don't get one-itus with her.

She may see you as a friend, search here for how to turn a friend into more than friends, if that's what you want.

Turn the tables on her.. Date someone else, and find a smooth way to fill her in on it.
 

flexion_

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Well clearly you are wasting your time with this one. I'd just move on.
 

pvf94

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I dont think it would be wasting my time aslong as I do not take any inititive to hangout....ill let her do all that. I will just stop talking to her unless she talks to me.....sound alright?
 
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