"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pvf94

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Seeing as to how you fella's love solving my problems....got another for ya....:rock:

So ive been hangin out with a girl here and there....the one I have been posting about as of recently**

She get's on aim...im's me...we bull**** about the last outing we had. (caused havoc at walmart)

She than inform's me that she and another guy that I knew she has been hangin out with where sitting there and they both drank 45 shots of beer....:whistle:

I replied with "haha, drinkin buddies?"

She replied with "Dating"

I replied "tighttttt"

She replied "bootyyyy"

I proceeded to tell her id be back in a few.....I changed online status to afk and left and didnt come back.

After her willingingly wanting to hangout with me and all this **** I dunno, im kinda bummed out about the whole "dating" thing she said. But...I dont know if I should pursue or just let things go with that one....I can but it would be a shame I liked her :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thomas94305

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For starters, you can't count on her for anything now (sorry). Be sure you are talking with other women, generating other options. Don't get one-itus with her.

She may see you as a friend, search here for how to turn a friend into more than friends, if that's what you want.

Turn the tables on her.. Date someone else, and find a smooth way to fill her in on it.
 

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Well clearly you are wasting your time with this one. I'd just move on.
 

pvf94

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I dont think it would be wasting my time aslong as I do not take any inititive to hangout....ill let her do all that. I will just stop talking to her unless she talks to me.....sound alright?
 
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