"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where do Blonde hair - Blue eyed males rank for most women?

JackRobin

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I have heard things like

1. they are at the top of the ladder

2. they are right behind white males with darker features

3. minorities can out do them in a contest of good looks, like a really good looking brown or latin guy can compete against them
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NewAndImproved

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Not that high apparently for the dimes of all races that have been interested in me.

Get what I'm getting at?
 

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I knew two good looking guys (one short, one tall) with these features, and they both did very well. But there are other factors, as well. They were very social, assertive, out-going, care-free, etc. I think you need both. Social people tend to take care of their appearance, dress and act a certain way, are confident, fun, out-going, talkative, APPROACHABLE, etc. And they tend to be good looking. So, they get approached easily.

A lot of it has to do with the vibes you give out, and the status you are perceived as having, more than specific features. But chicks have all sorts of different standards. Some like darker features, some like quiet / laid back guys (not to be confused with shy and insecure), some like aggressive types, some like annoying, loud-mouth ****-asses... You name it.

Not many are too critical or selective about specific features, IME. As long as they were good looking - it didn't matter what they were. White, blonde, tanned, darker features... They all did pretty well. But they all gave off certain vibes of being cool, social, popular, fun, etc.

It also depends on what you're trying to attract, and the lifestyle you're trying to lead. IME, like definitely attracts like. You probably won't attract any decent people this way. At least, none of us ever did. But there's a lot of fake, shallow, materialistic, status-obsessed, "hot", DTF chicks into this ****. You know, the clubs, partying, drama, etc.

At least, this is what I associated with, and thus, all I really know. But these "social" crowds definitely attract a lot of women, and they have no problems engaging each other. Of course, they're not very smart, deep, or interesting, but that's probably why they just party, act like idiots, and get laid. Pretty much all they're good for. All appearance / looks and no substance.

Associating with the more ordinary folk down here has been a change. They're not unattractive by any means, but they don't take care of their appearance, aren't flashy, don't swag, act ****y, make a lot of noise, or brag, aren't very social, "cool", or out-going, don't go to clubs or parties, don't have ego's, and don't really get any women. Interesting how that works.

I don't think ordinary people get much of anything. Not many friends, hardly any dates, etc. I knew some back up north, in the city environment, but didn't associate with them. They're all over down here. Just stick to themselves and lead quiet lives. Pretty boring and nerdy, so I can see why women aren't attracted to them. Still beats all the drama and chaos, though. And those "social" crowds tend to be full of overly competitive, judgemental (by status), egotistical *******s.:box:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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