Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Where do Blonde hair - Blue eyed males rank for most women?

JackRobin

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I have heard things like

1. they are at the top of the ladder

2. they are right behind white males with darker features

3. minorities can out do them in a contest of good looks, like a really good looking brown or latin guy can compete against them
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not that high apparently for the dimes of all races that have been interested in me.

Get what I'm getting at?
 

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I knew two good looking guys (one short, one tall) with these features, and they both did very well. But there are other factors, as well. They were very social, assertive, out-going, care-free, etc. I think you need both. Social people tend to take care of their appearance, dress and act a certain way, are confident, fun, out-going, talkative, APPROACHABLE, etc. And they tend to be good looking. So, they get approached easily.

A lot of it has to do with the vibes you give out, and the status you are perceived as having, more than specific features. But chicks have all sorts of different standards. Some like darker features, some like quiet / laid back guys (not to be confused with shy and insecure), some like aggressive types, some like annoying, loud-mouth ****-asses... You name it.

Not many are too critical or selective about specific features, IME. As long as they were good looking - it didn't matter what they were. White, blonde, tanned, darker features... They all did pretty well. But they all gave off certain vibes of being cool, social, popular, fun, etc.

It also depends on what you're trying to attract, and the lifestyle you're trying to lead. IME, like definitely attracts like. You probably won't attract any decent people this way. At least, none of us ever did. But there's a lot of fake, shallow, materialistic, status-obsessed, "hot", DTF chicks into this ****. You know, the clubs, partying, drama, etc.

At least, this is what I associated with, and thus, all I really know. But these "social" crowds definitely attract a lot of women, and they have no problems engaging each other. Of course, they're not very smart, deep, or interesting, but that's probably why they just party, act like idiots, and get laid. Pretty much all they're good for. All appearance / looks and no substance.

Associating with the more ordinary folk down here has been a change. They're not unattractive by any means, but they don't take care of their appearance, aren't flashy, don't swag, act ****y, make a lot of noise, or brag, aren't very social, "cool", or out-going, don't go to clubs or parties, don't have ego's, and don't really get any women. Interesting how that works.

I don't think ordinary people get much of anything. Not many friends, hardly any dates, etc. I knew some back up north, in the city environment, but didn't associate with them. They're all over down here. Just stick to themselves and lead quiet lives. Pretty boring and nerdy, so I can see why women aren't attracted to them. Still beats all the drama and chaos, though. And those "social" crowds tend to be full of overly competitive, judgemental (by status), egotistical *******s.:box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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