"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where do all the HB9's work?

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I decided since I am a goodlooking young male Adonis, I would like to work with my female counterpart.

I want to find a job where I can get to know some HB9's.

Does anybody know where I should work? Maybe in a resort/spa or in a clothing store?

I don't want to do anything gay, I just want to make the HB9's want me. Who knows where they work?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why 9 ? and not 10 ?
 

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Sorry I forgot lol.
 

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Any place where looks are more important than brains...i.e. receptionists at higher end establishments, clothing/jewelry stores, marketing/promotions, modelling (naturally), etc. Most of these jobs are relatively sh*t, from the money making standpoint.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whole Foods...

oh

and lawfirms too...
 

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Normally model agency's should be obvious.

Like danger said marketing firms.

Also here in South Africa there's a lot of hot chicks at travel agency's as well.
 

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well most jobs who have to work with public, most guys will evade or simple not hired for these, and they tend to hire a pretty woman since just by looks it invite guys and woman feel more confortable with another woman
 

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Espi said:
Tanning salon.

Better yet--own one.

Surely will attract gorgeous babes.

Also: pharmaceutical rep. They seem to hire only gorgeous women.
^yes. Drug reps are freaking HOT. But they won't hire men. So forget about that.

I would recommend getting a job at a bar, or even better, a club. In the town I live in, the girls who work at clubs are freaking HOT. Yes they are probably sucking a different d!ck every night, but at least you will be around attractive women.

If you want women who are not as whorish, try getting a job at Bebe or Marciano.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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