"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where do all the HB9's work?

Chamber36

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I decided since I am a goodlooking young male Adonis, I would like to work with my female counterpart.

I want to find a job where I can get to know some HB9's.

Does anybody know where I should work? Maybe in a resort/spa or in a clothing store?

I don't want to do anything gay, I just want to make the HB9's want me. Who knows where they work?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why 9 ? and not 10 ?
 

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Sorry I forgot lol.
 

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Any place where looks are more important than brains...i.e. receptionists at higher end establishments, clothing/jewelry stores, marketing/promotions, modelling (naturally), etc. Most of these jobs are relatively sh*t, from the money making standpoint.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whole Foods...

oh

and lawfirms too...
 

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Normally model agency's should be obvious.

Like danger said marketing firms.

Also here in South Africa there's a lot of hot chicks at travel agency's as well.
 

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well most jobs who have to work with public, most guys will evade or simple not hired for these, and they tend to hire a pretty woman since just by looks it invite guys and woman feel more confortable with another woman
 

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Espi said:
Tanning salon.

Better yet--own one.

Surely will attract gorgeous babes.

Also: pharmaceutical rep. They seem to hire only gorgeous women.
^yes. Drug reps are freaking HOT. But they won't hire men. So forget about that.

I would recommend getting a job at a bar, or even better, a club. In the town I live in, the girls who work at clubs are freaking HOT. Yes they are probably sucking a different d!ck every night, but at least you will be around attractive women.

If you want women who are not as whorish, try getting a job at Bebe or Marciano.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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