"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where Did My Post Go!!!!!!!!!!

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OK SO WHY DID A MODERATOR DELETE MY POST??? I got a few responses but did someone think that the question wasn't suitable enough for this board. Whoever deleted it please explain to me why? Are there boundaries as to what can or cannot be asked on here. Sorry if you thought it was a stupid question but not everybody has the same problems.... I'm new to this forum and this is the introduction I get.... Whoever deleted it why don't you be a man and at least private message me or tell me why in a post.... Talk about being the opposite of a don juan... more like a don wimp.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Studly585

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I'm Anthony - I'm new to the forum - posted something the other day and got a few responses from a few people which was cool and then the post just disappeared.... it's cool i just wanted to find out why - whatever though it's over and done with....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paradox

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Stormbringer said:
It could be that you're posting in the Mature Man forum, and your age is not included.

Ding, Ding, Ding....the prize goes to Stormbringer!
 

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Ding Ding Ding .... are you kidding me? Are you sure this is the mature forum? Hey Stormbinger - thanks for the tip... I didn't realize that was the way they screen people being that anyone could put any age under their name...
 

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Studly585 said:
Ding Ding Ding .... are you kidding me? Are you sure this is the mature forum? Hey Stormbinger - thanks for the tip... I didn't realize that was the way they screen people being that anyone could put any age under their name...
The mature section is mostly teens posting. People on here have yet to figure out the most basic of concepts in regards to people. Much like no 16 year old girl wants to date a 16 year old boy, or no 16 year old boy wants you to think that he is 16. Most of the people on here still haven't come to terms with those simple truths.
 

penkitten

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this section of sosuave is reserved for members who are 25 yrs old or older.
thats just how the owner set it up.
 

mpimpin

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bigappledj said:
The mature section is mostly teens posting. People on here have yet to figure out the most basic of concepts in regards to people. Much like no 16 year old girl wants to date a 16 year old boy, or no 16 year old boy wants you to think that he is 16. Most of the people on here still haven't come to terms with those simple truths.

This guy obviously knows what he's talking about. He posts 12+ posts a day :whistle:

Reminds me of a former member :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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