OK SO WHY DID A MODERATOR DELETE MY POST??? I got a few responses but did someone think that the question wasn't suitable enough for this board. Whoever deleted it please explain to me why? Are there boundaries as to what can or cannot be asked on here. Sorry if you thought it was a stupid question but not everybody has the same problems.... I'm new to this forum and this is the introduction I get.... Whoever deleted it why don't you be a man and at least private message me or tell me why in a post.... Talk about being the opposite of a don juan... more like a don wimp.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where Did My Post Go!!!!!!!!!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
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i didnt see your post dude.
KarmaSutra
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I didn't see it either.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
wait dude, who are you ?
I'm Anthony - I'm new to the forum - posted something the other day and got a few responses from a few people which was cool and then the post just disappeared.... it's cool i just wanted to find out why - whatever though it's over and done with....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ding Ding Ding .... are you kidding me? Are you sure this is the mature forum? Hey Stormbinger - thanks for the tip... I didn't realize that was the way they screen people being that anyone could put any age under their name...
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The mature section is mostly teens posting. People on here have yet to figure out the most basic of concepts in regards to people. Much like no 16 year old girl wants to date a 16 year old boy, or no 16 year old boy wants you to think that he is 16. Most of the people on here still haven't come to terms with those simple truths.Studly585 said:
penkitten
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this section of sosuave is reserved for members who are 25 yrs old or older.
thats just how the owner set it up.
thats just how the owner set it up.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.