OK SO WHY DID A MODERATOR DELETE MY POST??? I got a few responses but did someone think that the question wasn't suitable enough for this board. Whoever deleted it please explain to me why? Are there boundaries as to what can or cannot be asked on here. Sorry if you thought it was a stupid question but not everybody has the same problems.... I'm new to this forum and this is the introduction I get.... Whoever deleted it why don't you be a man and at least private message me or tell me why in a post.... Talk about being the opposite of a don juan... more like a don wimp.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Where Did My Post Go!!!!!!!!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt see your post dude.
KarmaSutra
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I didn't see it either.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
wait dude, who are you ?
I'm Anthony - I'm new to the forum - posted something the other day and got a few responses from a few people which was cool and then the post just disappeared.... it's cool i just wanted to find out why - whatever though it's over and done with....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ding Ding Ding .... are you kidding me? Are you sure this is the mature forum? Hey Stormbinger - thanks for the tip... I didn't realize that was the way they screen people being that anyone could put any age under their name...
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The mature section is mostly teens posting. People on here have yet to figure out the most basic of concepts in regards to people. Much like no 16 year old girl wants to date a 16 year old boy, or no 16 year old boy wants you to think that he is 16. Most of the people on here still haven't come to terms with those simple truths.Studly585 said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this section of sosuave is reserved for members who are 25 yrs old or older.
thats just how the owner set it up.
thats just how the owner set it up.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.