"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where can I take a girl somewhere thats DIFFERENT!

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Ok. So I got her number and I worked my magic, got her feeling good and told her she would have a great night with me when I see her next.

I have a few ideas where to take her but I want to do something different! Something that other high school girls don't do on their average Friday night.

No movies, coffee, etc. Something cheap but exciting! Ideas appreciated!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bring her to your room!! Im sure a normal high school girl doesnt do that every friday.

WELL, IF THEY DO........... THEN, THEY DONT GO TO OUR SCHOOL!!
 
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Originally posted by whyshy
Bring her to your room!! Im sure a normal high school girl doesnt do that every friday.

WELL, IF THEY DO........... THEN, THEY DONT GO TO OUR SCHOOL!!
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Don't worry ;) She will be in my room by the end of the night.

Ok sorry! I thought the forum history got deleted when that hiccup happened.

My bad! :)
 
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Go and ping pong. Say you have a table at home and you will gladly give herone of your balls to play with:D
 
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Originally posted by napoleon
Go and ping pong. Say you have a table at home and you will gladly give herone of your balls to play with:D
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We'll go grab a coffee then I might get a nice scary movie out. Good excuse to head to the room. Lights can go off. She gets scared ...bit of kino starting to happen. Its winter ...she'll want under the covers because its cold. I jump in. Bit more kino. Kiss her. We go hard.

Its a plan :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why not go to the park, go ice skating, go have an open fire and toast marshmellows somewhere. Go round doing crazy stuff like going and camping out on a golf green
 
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Mmhm. Camping on golf green, pretty sexy, attaboy JSH. Another idea is a park, a small little park. I have a few in the subdivision I live in, two swings, a tunnel slide = perfect. Movies is too cliche, try TV, good o'l cable! Ask her what she wants to watch, you'll learn more about her that way.;)
 
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