"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where can I take a girl somewhere thats DIFFERENT!

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Ok. So I got her number and I worked my magic, got her feeling good and told her she would have a great night with me when I see her next.

I have a few ideas where to take her but I want to do something different! Something that other high school girls don't do on their average Friday night.

No movies, coffee, etc. Something cheap but exciting! Ideas appreciated!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bring her to your room!! Im sure a normal high school girl doesnt do that every friday.

WELL, IF THEY DO........... THEN, THEY DONT GO TO OUR SCHOOL!!
 
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Originally posted by whyshy
Bring her to your room!! Im sure a normal high school girl doesnt do that every friday.

WELL, IF THEY DO........... THEN, THEY DONT GO TO OUR SCHOOL!!
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Don't worry ;) She will be in my room by the end of the night.

Ok sorry! I thought the forum history got deleted when that hiccup happened.

My bad! :)
 
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Go and ping pong. Say you have a table at home and you will gladly give herone of your balls to play with:D
 
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Originally posted by napoleon
Go and ping pong. Say you have a table at home and you will gladly give herone of your balls to play with:D
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We'll go grab a coffee then I might get a nice scary movie out. Good excuse to head to the room. Lights can go off. She gets scared ...bit of kino starting to happen. Its winter ...she'll want under the covers because its cold. I jump in. Bit more kino. Kiss her. We go hard.

Its a plan :woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why not go to the park, go ice skating, go have an open fire and toast marshmellows somewhere. Go round doing crazy stuff like going and camping out on a golf green
 
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Mmhm. Camping on golf green, pretty sexy, attaboy JSH. Another idea is a park, a small little park. I have a few in the subdivision I live in, two swings, a tunnel slide = perfect. Movies is too cliche, try TV, good o'l cable! Ask her what she wants to watch, you'll learn more about her that way.;)
 
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