I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nobody cares or even cares to know. I did not even know this before you put up this thread.
But won't people ignore my posts now because they gonna think I'm a troll and/or just want to argue?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh, really? Well as long people won't ignore my posts, I don't see any reason to make a post about the incident
No man, that's not what happened. The guy implied that my fashion sense is so bad and that I'm reluctant to learn on how to dress, both statements being absolute farce based on nothing, and by doing that he thought to get me to get to use his fashion website to improve my "absolutely horrible" fashion sense, as he posted a link to a guide in the same reply that is "easy enough to follow" that was on his own website. I called him out on that and then suddenly I'm not looking for advice and am a waste of time according to him. So I called out on his bs in such detail, everybody who read his first reply would understand what was going on. But the knowers of secrets of female psychology (the forum members) couldn't get over their tribal bias and ganged up on me lol including a mod giving me a first warning. I replied by asking him by guessing what could be the warning for as I wasn't the one who was responsible for the situation and got banned lmfao.
People don't ignore your posts unless they actually put you on ignore. There is no reason to put you on ignore unless you start attacking me. There is a perpetual state of war with some detractors so I just put them on ignore in order to maintain the peace (i.e. so nobody gets banned or threads don't get locked).Oh, really? Well as long people won't ignore my posts, I don't see any reason to make a post about the incident
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is a man's forum.
I hv never ever aired a single content of ANYONE'S PM in Sosuave.
Then please produce said subject where I posted someone's else PM on Sosuave.
You don't need to give excuses nor an apology to me, being dumb is not a crime to me.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
