I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nobody cares or even cares to know. I did not even know this before you put up this thread.
But won't people ignore my posts now because they gonna think I'm a troll and/or just want to argue?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh, really? Well as long people won't ignore my posts, I don't see any reason to make a post about the incident
No man, that's not what happened. The guy implied that my fashion sense is so bad and that I'm reluctant to learn on how to dress, both statements being absolute farce based on nothing, and by doing that he thought to get me to get to use his fashion website to improve my "absolutely horrible" fashion sense, as he posted a link to a guide in the same reply that is "easy enough to follow" that was on his own website. I called him out on that and then suddenly I'm not looking for advice and am a waste of time according to him. So I called out on his bs in such detail, everybody who read his first reply would understand what was going on. But the knowers of secrets of female psychology (the forum members) couldn't get over their tribal bias and ganged up on me lol including a mod giving me a first warning. I replied by asking him by guessing what could be the warning for as I wasn't the one who was responsible for the situation and got banned lmfao.
People don't ignore your posts unless they actually put you on ignore. There is no reason to put you on ignore unless you start attacking me. There is a perpetual state of war with some detractors so I just put them on ignore in order to maintain the peace (i.e. so nobody gets banned or threads don't get locked).Oh, really? Well as long people won't ignore my posts, I don't see any reason to make a post about the incident
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is a man's forum.
I hv never ever aired a single content of ANYONE'S PM in Sosuave.
Then please produce said subject where I posted someone's else PM on Sosuave.
You don't need to give excuses nor an apology to me, being dumb is not a crime to me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
