"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Where can I get this jacket?

KillingTime

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Ive been looking for a casual leather jacket for a while, I really like the biker ones with the stripe going across kinda like this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=57988&item=3945999181&rd=1

but I want one with a red stripe.
If anyone watched Real World San Diego, the guy... im pretty sure his name was brad had one exactly like what im describing. Ive tried looking in stores but no luck, anyone know of an online place that would have it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chilli_pimp

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don't kno...
but the guy whos wearing it in the picture doesn't look to comfortable
 

Vincent

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I think they need a better model for that jacket...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Julian

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I saw the one your talking about at wilson leather, and btw i see dudes rocking that jacket all the time and its very corny looking in my opinion. I even saw one at this rugged pawn shop downtown.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by PoloBlue
try a motorcycle shop that sells leather jackets
Whoa wisdom input of the day!

(no sarcasm.)
 

PoloBlue

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I was shopping at the mall today and saw something that looked very similiar at a store called "WILSON's LEATHERS"

they were on sale for $99.00 [regularly $300]

the style of leather motorcycle jacket had a two inch wide "red" racing stripe from the shoulders and along the arms, it looked very sporty, a nice casual jacket.

the red racing strip on the shoulder and arms looked better in my opinion, the leather also felt soft and comfortable.

they didnt have any with the wide stripe on the chest, only the narrow stripe on the arms and shoulder.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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