"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where are you going to college?

bogman2121

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Where are you fellow seniors going to college next year?
I will find out from Ohio State tomorrow if I've been accepted and thats where I want to go but if not I will be attending the University of Cincinnati for a year and then transfer because it's the least expensive compared to all the other colleges I got into thus far.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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A community college where i live.
 

imnexthere

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St. John's University Tobin College of Business.

We should have more posts for us HS seniors soon to be college freshmen as it gets closer to Aug. Maybe some of the guys already in college can post some college specific advice like we do for incoming HS students.
 

chim_chim

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Most likely Boston University. Today I found out that they're going to give me a full-tuition scholarship. It was a pleasant surprise to say the least. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bogman2121

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Originally posted by imnexthere
St. John's University Tobin College of Business.

We should have more posts for us HS seniors soon to be college freshmen as it gets closer to Aug. Maybe some of the guys already in college can post some college specific advice like we do for incoming HS students.
Yea, some advice for/about college would be sweet. I'd really like to know as much about it as possible before I go so I know what to expect and all that jazz. We need to know about the classes, social life, what they do for fun, and of course the ladies.
 

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I've been accepted to Sam Houston State University which is about an hour away from home and am still waiting to hear from Texas A&M University which is in my city, lol. I could use some input here from you guys. Go to college at home and chance having my parents bug me all the time (Texas A&M) or go to Sam Houston and be totally free of my parents and only be an hour away from home so I could still visit my friends on weekends?
 

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Right now I'm debating between University of Hawaii Manoa and University of Limerick (it's in Ireland).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Viper423
I've been accepted to Sam Houston State University which is about an hour away from home and am still waiting to hear from Texas A&M University which is in my city, lol. I could use some input here from you guys. Go to college at home and chance having my parents bug me all the time (Texas A&M) or go to Sam Houston and be totally free of my parents and only be an hour away from home so I could still visit my friends on weekends?
You only go to college once, right? So would you rather stay in the same city you've been in your whole life, or go out and try something new. I had the choice to go to Cornell, 3 hours from my hometown, or go to St. Louis and be 1000 miles away. I chose St. Louis and haven't looked back, while having the best time of my life.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
Freshman at Washington Univ. in St. Louis
i almost went there. Going to Northwestern Uni next year though
 
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