"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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where are the HB's on weeknights?

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shaken_not_stirred

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where are some good places to find HB's on weeknights in areas with no proximity to colleges?

i live in a suburb of denver...very yuppyish area. checked out the mall last night. it was basically dead. gonna check out bookstores next. i'll probably hit up the clubs/bars= thursday night. any other ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think it depends on the crowd you are looking for. If you are looking for bar girls who probably go out and party every nite then partys and bars are the place to be if thats your thing.

If you want maby more sophisticated women then check out starbucks or something, but make sure you are comfortable approaching groups of women (usually they arn't there alone).

Want a great spot to find women?? Sign up for a dance class, or yoga or ect ect. Usually the ratio of men to women is 1-5 and you are guarenteed they all want a male dance partner so you are in demand right away. Easy to open up and talk when you are dancing also.

Also if you have a good deal of friends already host a party, rent a hotel room with 4-5 guys so it really doesn't cost you anything and ask everyone you invite be required to bring friends (people love to bring people they know to a party anyway). This way you get to meet others and hang out with a party crowd and if you are cool these ppl hopefully invite you to partys in the future ^_^
 
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In my bed.:eek: jk:p

I always wanted to learn haw to tango. I just might sine up.
 
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check out big video stores, you would be surprised how many HB's rent movies during the week alone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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