"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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where are the HB's on weeknights?

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where are some good places to find HB's on weeknights in areas with no proximity to colleges?

i live in a suburb of denver...very yuppyish area. checked out the mall last night. it was basically dead. gonna check out bookstores next. i'll probably hit up the clubs/bars= thursday night. any other ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sun-Tan Superman

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I think it depends on the crowd you are looking for. If you are looking for bar girls who probably go out and party every nite then partys and bars are the place to be if thats your thing.

If you want maby more sophisticated women then check out starbucks or something, but make sure you are comfortable approaching groups of women (usually they arn't there alone).

Want a great spot to find women?? Sign up for a dance class, or yoga or ect ect. Usually the ratio of men to women is 1-5 and you are guarenteed they all want a male dance partner so you are in demand right away. Easy to open up and talk when you are dancing also.

Also if you have a good deal of friends already host a party, rent a hotel room with 4-5 guys so it really doesn't cost you anything and ask everyone you invite be required to bring friends (people love to bring people they know to a party anyway). This way you get to meet others and hang out with a party crowd and if you are cool these ppl hopefully invite you to partys in the future ^_^
 

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In my bed.:eek: jk:p

I always wanted to learn haw to tango. I just might sine up.
 

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check out big video stores, you would be surprised how many HB's rent movies during the week alone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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