"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where are the best places in Europe to live and meet girls?

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Hey guys, I'm currently moving out of Florida USA and would like to spend 6 months or so someplace in Europe or Australia, someplace that is a great place to live and great for meeting beautiful women.

So I need some recommendations. I hear Australia has beutiful friendly women? What about Amsterdam? How about any cities in Italy? What about Riga in Latvia? What about the island Ibiza in Spain? Or the city Odessa in Ukraine? I'm limited to speaking English and Spanish by the way.

So if you could go anywhere, based on your actual experience, where would it be?

By the way, I've been to Europe before. In Stockholm Sweden, I didn't see many young women at all. Mostly older people 40+. Same in Copenhagen, Denmark. The nightlife in Copenhagen didn't seem like much either.

I was in Tallinn, Estonia briefly. Some attractive women there, but people don't speak English there. And kind of a small city.

Madrid in Spain was a cool city. But mostly very skin, pale-white girls, not really my thing.

I was also in Budapest, Hungary. Didn't see many chicks on the streets in the historic area, and couldn't find the nightlife as no one spoke English.

Okay, so any suggestions?

Motion
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Questions back at you:
What kind of women do you like?
How old are you?
Why do you have this free time?


The Netherlands is a country with a lot of English speaking people. Amsterdam is a cool city, but there's other cool cities in the Netherlands as well. Plenty of nice women around here ;)
 

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Amsterdam or Rotterdam.. then you could also go to Antwerpen (Belgium) not too far from Rotterdam.

But girls are everywhere, just go to a big city!
 

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Yeah my friend went to England, Spain, France, Germany, Italy, and Sweden. He said that Germany has the horniest chicks (as in want to **** you simply because you're American) but he said that Sweden had the hottest chicks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Give HK (Hong Kong) a try (where I grew up) I know its not in europe, but asia is slowly growing in terms of real estate and everything, and things there are quite cheap.

If you like really mature people, and very cosmopolitan type of people.

if you are into asian women I recommend it, if you are caucasian and are trying to find a caucasian women there are surprisingly alot of caucasian people living in HK especially in the Stanley and Sai Kung and Tai Po area.

Give it a search, its a very good place, convienient, clean, efficient, foods good, and NO TAX LAWS.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. Hong Kong, never thought of that as a destination!!

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I live in Germany, I am in the Army, and in bigger cities like Nuremberg, Munich, Berlin; there are some great looking women
 

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Motion said:
Thanks for the advice guys. Hong Kong, never thought of that as a destination!!

Motion
Your welcome motion!

Oh, I am going to boarding school in England at the moment.....and English girls are f-u-g-l-y.
 

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Thats not what my girl friend from Nuremberg says.

Now who knows about cheap ways to get around the countries. If I want to go from Sweden - Germany - Italy - France - Austria where do I go for the cheap train tickets and cheap places to stay?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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michaelhctam said:
Give HK (Hong Kong) a try (where I grew up) I know its not in europe, but asia is slowly growing in terms of real estate and everything, and things there are quite cheap.

If you like really mature people, and very cosmopolitan type of people.

if you are into asian women I recommend it, if you are caucasian and are trying to find a caucasian women there are surprisingly alot of caucasian people living in HK especially in the Stanley and Sai Kung and Tai Po area.

Give it a search, its a very good place, convienient, clean, efficient, foods good, and NO TAX LAWS.
Yep, its a good place,
Its scary, In Hong Kong, I actually saw more head-turning western girls then in Sheffield and its got a well developed clubbing scene. Not to mention the cute local girls

As for living there, most things in hong kong are cheap by UK standards except for housing, so it might be expensive to move there.
 

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The cost of living in Hong Kong (other than housing) is cheap?? crazy, I always thought it was one of the most expensive cities in the world..on par with tokyo, etc. (thats what they say but it might be all because of the housing costs)

How is the "pick up scene" in hong kong though? I plan on travelling there..some time like half a year or so from now. Is it true that most people can speak English?
 
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