"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where are the best places in Europe to live and meet girls?

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Hey guys, I'm currently moving out of Florida USA and would like to spend 6 months or so someplace in Europe or Australia, someplace that is a great place to live and great for meeting beautiful women.

So I need some recommendations. I hear Australia has beutiful friendly women? What about Amsterdam? How about any cities in Italy? What about Riga in Latvia? What about the island Ibiza in Spain? Or the city Odessa in Ukraine? I'm limited to speaking English and Spanish by the way.

So if you could go anywhere, based on your actual experience, where would it be?

By the way, I've been to Europe before. In Stockholm Sweden, I didn't see many young women at all. Mostly older people 40+. Same in Copenhagen, Denmark. The nightlife in Copenhagen didn't seem like much either.

I was in Tallinn, Estonia briefly. Some attractive women there, but people don't speak English there. And kind of a small city.

Madrid in Spain was a cool city. But mostly very skin, pale-white girls, not really my thing.

I was also in Budapest, Hungary. Didn't see many chicks on the streets in the historic area, and couldn't find the nightlife as no one spoke English.

Okay, so any suggestions?

Motion
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Questions back at you:
What kind of women do you like?
How old are you?
Why do you have this free time?


The Netherlands is a country with a lot of English speaking people. Amsterdam is a cool city, but there's other cool cities in the Netherlands as well. Plenty of nice women around here ;)
 

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Amsterdam or Rotterdam.. then you could also go to Antwerpen (Belgium) not too far from Rotterdam.

But girls are everywhere, just go to a big city!
 

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Yeah my friend went to England, Spain, France, Germany, Italy, and Sweden. He said that Germany has the horniest chicks (as in want to **** you simply because you're American) but he said that Sweden had the hottest chicks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Give HK (Hong Kong) a try (where I grew up) I know its not in europe, but asia is slowly growing in terms of real estate and everything, and things there are quite cheap.

If you like really mature people, and very cosmopolitan type of people.

if you are into asian women I recommend it, if you are caucasian and are trying to find a caucasian women there are surprisingly alot of caucasian people living in HK especially in the Stanley and Sai Kung and Tai Po area.

Give it a search, its a very good place, convienient, clean, efficient, foods good, and NO TAX LAWS.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. Hong Kong, never thought of that as a destination!!

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I live in Germany, I am in the Army, and in bigger cities like Nuremberg, Munich, Berlin; there are some great looking women
 

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Motion said:
Thanks for the advice guys. Hong Kong, never thought of that as a destination!!

Motion
Your welcome motion!

Oh, I am going to boarding school in England at the moment.....and English girls are f-u-g-l-y.
 

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Thats not what my girl friend from Nuremberg says.

Now who knows about cheap ways to get around the countries. If I want to go from Sweden - Germany - Italy - France - Austria where do I go for the cheap train tickets and cheap places to stay?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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michaelhctam said:
Give HK (Hong Kong) a try (where I grew up) I know its not in europe, but asia is slowly growing in terms of real estate and everything, and things there are quite cheap.

If you like really mature people, and very cosmopolitan type of people.

if you are into asian women I recommend it, if you are caucasian and are trying to find a caucasian women there are surprisingly alot of caucasian people living in HK especially in the Stanley and Sai Kung and Tai Po area.

Give it a search, its a very good place, convienient, clean, efficient, foods good, and NO TAX LAWS.
Yep, its a good place,
Its scary, In Hong Kong, I actually saw more head-turning western girls then in Sheffield and its got a well developed clubbing scene. Not to mention the cute local girls

As for living there, most things in hong kong are cheap by UK standards except for housing, so it might be expensive to move there.
 

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The cost of living in Hong Kong (other than housing) is cheap?? crazy, I always thought it was one of the most expensive cities in the world..on par with tokyo, etc. (thats what they say but it might be all because of the housing costs)

How is the "pick up scene" in hong kong though? I plan on travelling there..some time like half a year or so from now. Is it true that most people can speak English?
 
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