"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where are private places we can be more intimate?

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I stole 3rd base and got tagged out sliding. Problem was we were in a park with people. Any women I'm with I have problems with PDA hahahahaaa....... I guess my problem is that I don't have access to a car or a house. I have the confidence and know-how to get the pants off. I just don't have a place to do it.

Excluding a car and a house where are some places that you can get pretty intimate while in privacy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SandHawk

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Or just be the bad boy that every girl craves and do it anyway. I've been with a lot of girls who had problems with PDA and I just ran them over and made them show it. I've had sex on metro platforms, in clubs and a few other places. It's all a matter of state-of-mind and taken what you want. Of course, don't push it, if they clearly hold you off you stop, you don't want rape charges.
 

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SandHawk said:
Or just be the bad boy that every girl craves and do it anyway. I've been with a lot of girls who had problems with PDA and I just ran them over and made them show it. I've had sex on metro platforms, in clubs and a few other places. It's all a matter of state-of-mind and taken what you want. Of course, don't push it, if they clearly hold you off you stop, you don't want rape charges.
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ARrocket

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Boxer said:
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
Try going to a more secluded park. If it's at night, this is even easier. There was a thread recently about taking a girl to a golf course late at night...that's an idea. Your car in a (safe) secluded area...you really don't have a whole lot of options but you gotta try anyway!
 

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Boxer said:
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
The only reason I haven't ****ed a chick in the park against a tree was that fact that I lacked a condom. But it's all a matter of timing, if you're late at night, you can do pretty much anything. Most people wouldn't notice nor care.

During day time I'd personally find a secluded place or bounce. But at night, parks are awesome, esp. if the weather is good.
 
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