"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where are private places we can be more intimate?

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I stole 3rd base and got tagged out sliding. Problem was we were in a park with people. Any women I'm with I have problems with PDA hahahahaaa....... I guess my problem is that I don't have access to a car or a house. I have the confidence and know-how to get the pants off. I just don't have a place to do it.

Excluding a car and a house where are some places that you can get pretty intimate while in privacy?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Or just be the bad boy that every girl craves and do it anyway. I've been with a lot of girls who had problems with PDA and I just ran them over and made them show it. I've had sex on metro platforms, in clubs and a few other places. It's all a matter of state-of-mind and taken what you want. Of course, don't push it, if they clearly hold you off you stop, you don't want rape charges.
 

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SandHawk said:
Or just be the bad boy that every girl craves and do it anyway. I've been with a lot of girls who had problems with PDA and I just ran them over and made them show it. I've had sex on metro platforms, in clubs and a few other places. It's all a matter of state-of-mind and taken what you want. Of course, don't push it, if they clearly hold you off you stop, you don't want rape charges.
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Boxer said:
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
Try going to a more secluded park. If it's at night, this is even easier. There was a thread recently about taking a girl to a golf course late at night...that's an idea. Your car in a (safe) secluded area...you really don't have a whole lot of options but you gotta try anyway!
 

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Boxer said:
Pretty sure having my **** out at the park while people are playing soccer and tennis, and other people are out walking their dogs is illegal. I'm not trying to get ourselves arrested or anything. I was just like "not here" and told her to get up and we just walked around a little bit. I tried to find a more private place but failed.
The only reason I haven't ****ed a chick in the park against a tree was that fact that I lacked a condom. But it's all a matter of timing, if you're late at night, you can do pretty much anything. Most people wouldn't notice nor care.

During day time I'd personally find a secluded place or bounce. But at night, parks are awesome, esp. if the weather is good.
 
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