"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where and/or How did your Parents meet?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My dad's friend since gradeschool became friends with my mom in college and introduced them when they were 20-21. They got married at 23 I think.
 

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I don't know the whole story. I just know that my mom turned down my dad consistently before finally giving him a chance because "he had a good heart." I guess nice guys don't always finish last but those were different times.
 

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friends introduced them at a bar and my mom thought my dad was a ****. she warmed up to him and blah blah blah... thats all i know, im only a kid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud said:
lol I'm not really concerned about that nor do I really want to know. All I know is that I'm glad they had me. Without me, all the good looking girls of the world would be missing out on something.
haha...i like your atitude :up:
stole the words right out of my mind :p


But, my parents met after the Vietnam War. They came to Canada, met up during HS and married after a couple years.
 

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My parents met at a meditation group held by my grandmother.
They sat next to each other and "felt" a connection. This was during the late
1960's. A couple of years later they were married. Another year passed and
then they got divorced.

Love's young dream.:crazy:
 

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My Mom and Dad met in a shoe factory he approached her.

From what I gather Mom gave dad the cold shoulder but she found him handsome with his jet black hair, brown eyes and naturally tanned skin she told me she actually felt insecure by his handsome good looks and felt he was a player.

As time passed my dad warmed my Mom by his personality and he had a yellow Ford rag top that got attention. My Mom a short blonde green eyed beauty and dad married on a Friday May 13th 1949 they've been together 59 years they had 3 sons and I am the youngest.

LoneSilver
 

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^^^

You really 'love' your parents huh! Maybe a bit too much :D

Mine met at work, no idea details, I really should find out.

My mum was the barby doll and my dad a hairy, four eyed football star. Lucky for him for the last part or with his soft, quiet persona, he wouldn't have stood a chance!

It is interesting where people met and if you notice, it's barely EVER through cold approaches. Always through a friend, common interest, school or work.

My brother met his wife in high school, been together 15 years now, I met my long-term girlfriend at University a few years back now.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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My parents met in high school. My dad was a senior and my mom was a freshman or sophmore. They dated for 4 years. Sometime after my mom graduated and my dad has been working they got married. My dad is 55 now and my mom is 51. Been married ever since... So, like 30 some years of marriage.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My mother was a Russian prostitute with a lazy eye, and my father was an American fighter pilot who crash-landed in her small village during the harvest season, and the rest is history...

Okay, so they actually met through mutual friends and hit it off.
 

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They met through the fvcking personal column in the newspaper. They're still together after 30 something years and hate each other.

Interesting topic! ...but needs to be in Anything Else.
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
My parents met through an arranged marriage.

Exciting I know.



I just thought about this, but what a waste of one my 10 posts.




**** the ten post rule
Same here,except there is a slight twist to the story with my parents which i'm sure none of you care about.
 

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Of the married people I am close friends with...

My parents met at a religious event.
My oldest brother met his wife being set-up by a mutual friend.
Other brother met his wife through a school-specific dating website (run by the university they attended)
My college roommate met her husband on the rebound at a frat party in college...that's a rarity.
Roommate's sister married rebound guy's best friend [double wedding style, how cool is that]
My closest friend in a LTR met his girl through a mutual friend.

Through friends is definitely the easiest way to go, because it's already established social proof. On your own you have to prove it or hope she's desperate enough not to care.
 

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My parents met through a blind date. They went out and my mom hated my dad. They didn't see each other for a bit.

Then mom went out on another date with some ******* that tried to molest/rape her at the drive-in movie theater. My dad happened to be walking by and heard her screaming. He reached in, pulled him outside the car, kicked the **** out of him, and then my mom never left my dad's side ever since.

They now had four kids, but one died.

comic_relief

P.S. It reminds me of Back to the Future. Think about it something like that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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haha wow comic that's like exactly out of back to the future.. one of my favorite movies

mine met working at a restaurant's in La Jolla CA.. dad was the bartender and mom was the waitress.
 

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Uni
 

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A ski club.
 

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mine met on a blind date set up by my mothers sister, who knew my father.
 
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