"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whens the last massage have you've taken? and where?

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Whens the last massage you've taken? and where? I had one a few days ago, at our Hotel my parent's owns a few blocks from our house. It was okay but I felt a lot better in the morning after getting a good night's sleep, feels revitalized man. I think a massage would do you some good right now if you're overly stressed and need some time for yourself, it's sort of like meditation where you're just focus on relaxing yourself and letting go. So I suggest you get one if your out of it and need to destress.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To me, a message isn't "relaxing" unless I have a few happy endings. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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I'm planning to get a massage today (with a women of course). The last massage I had was on October 31st.

I agree with your assessment that it does make you feel more relaxed. My whole system feels relaxed, especially the first few days afterwards. It was a novelty at first (ie the first one or two times), but now I'm used to a woman massaging my back. The one I'm seeing today was the first messeuse I visited when I broke the ice with this thing.

Its' normally a quiet and relaxed moment where you can just lie down and relax.
 

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Just had a massage. The masseuse asked me that it's up to me if I wanted to take my underware off. I'm like, did I really just hear that? Of course I kept my underware on. Today is Sunday and it is the Lord's day! I left as pure as I came in and had a great massage!
 

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I had a girl take me to this place, and we not only got a couples massage, but we also did the dinner, the water therapy, and about an hour of Swedish massage. It was my first time, and overall it was a good experience. Our companies paid for the massage since they cover it if the massage therapist is a registered physiotherapist or something like that, and we paid for everything else, plus a hotel nearby.


Later on, I was really stressed and decided to go to a hole-in-the-wall franchise. The experience was night and day, because the masseur there was basically a kid fresh out of college, so it wasn’t anywhere near as good as the luxury one.

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm planning to get a massage today (with a women of course). The last massage I had was on October 31st.

I agree with your assessment that it does make you feel more relaxed. My whole system feels relaxed, especially the first few days afterwards. It was a novelty at first (ie the first one or two times), but now I'm used to a woman massaging my back. The one I'm seeing today was the first messeuse I visited when I broke the ice with this thing.

Its' normally a quiet and relaxed moment where you can just lie down and relax.
Are you sure? Here is the great scene of George getting a massage from a man:

 
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