"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whens the best time to BUST And be C&F

wudiez

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When's the best time to bust a girls balls and be C&F... SHould it just be non-stop..

Or do you just treat a girl extrememly good, like take her out, share things with her, your opinions etc. And only when she's *****y you bust on her! And set her straight..

Or do you start the C&F from the start???

Insight??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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C+f in the beginning to get her attracted (if she's attracted to you in the first place, don't even start with C+f). After she's attracted to you, build rapport.

**That alone took me a LOOOOONG time to figure out. I fvcked up so many good things with women cause I would constantly be C+F. I wish someone would have told me, way back when, what I just told you. Would have saved me a lot of sh1t and headaches, haha.**

Don't take a girl out till you've been dating for several months. Even then, only take her out once in a while.

If a girl gets *****y with you, don't bust on her. CHECK HER and let her know where you stand. If you bust on her it's being playful and shows that you'll accept her sh1tty behavior but are trying to play it off. You don't want that. Check her, put her in her place. You MUST establish your boundries and what you'll accept in the relationship. Otherwise it's over before it even began.
 

que_est_suave

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yeah that is really true- i spend alloooot of time trying to be ****y and funny, for a while, i was convinced i couldnt have a normal conversation. It's like I wouldn't even ask "whats your name, where do you live, what do you do" etc. cos i thought they were WUSS questions and wouldnt even ask... but if you see or suspect a girl likes you, dooooooont go C+F... cos she'll think you're arrogant.
 
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