John_Taylor
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For you, when do you think its okay to kiss the girl?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
When's it okay to kiss
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
exactly the moment you grab your balls and say to yourself "grow the fvck up"
:crackup:T Money said:exactly the moment you grab your balls and say to yourself "grow the fvck up"
Dannyrt34
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As soon as you approach the girl for the first time. Let me know how that works.
No just kidding dude, but seriously. Let's say you're out on a date, you start out with lots of kino, teasing her a bit, making lots of jokes. Be really flirty, and something amazing will happen. You should start to notice she will become very comfortable in your presence. After you can tell she's comfy, she'll start to be the one to initiate the kino and stuff, this shows she's interested. I usually go in for the kiss whenever there is a silence in the conversation. Then, you can either just go in for the kiss, or say something like "I'm going to kiss you."
This works at any part of the date, preferrably the first date, you may end up making it awkward if you let it linger for too long. Pay attention to her body language and stuff, you can usually tell when the girl wants a kiss. I noticed a girl wanted a kiss from just the way she was looking at me. Or when you go to take the girl home after the date. When the girl tries to stall you, as in her delaying to leave you, or tries to start up a conversation when you're about to leave, that usually means she wants something before the date ends, and most of the time, they want kissed.
No just kidding dude, but seriously. Let's say you're out on a date, you start out with lots of kino, teasing her a bit, making lots of jokes. Be really flirty, and something amazing will happen. You should start to notice she will become very comfortable in your presence. After you can tell she's comfy, she'll start to be the one to initiate the kino and stuff, this shows she's interested. I usually go in for the kiss whenever there is a silence in the conversation. Then, you can either just go in for the kiss, or say something like "I'm going to kiss you."
This works at any part of the date, preferrably the first date, you may end up making it awkward if you let it linger for too long. Pay attention to her body language and stuff, you can usually tell when the girl wants a kiss. I noticed a girl wanted a kiss from just the way she was looking at me. Or when you go to take the girl home after the date. When the girl tries to stall you, as in her delaying to leave you, or tries to start up a conversation when you're about to leave, that usually means she wants something before the date ends, and most of the time, they want kissed.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Seriously, when you feel that connection with her that you are not "just friends", when you look her in ther eyes and wisper a nice platitiude. Then talk quietly and pause, look her in the eyes, then smootch in....
Never appologize for goinig for a kiss, you are the man and you desire her lips to touch yours.
If she doens't repsond in kind, give her a kiss on the cheek and wish her a good night.
A man never lets the circumstances dicate his mood, be the man and wish her a good night.
*** a good tip.... at the end of a date, ask for a kiss (point to your cheek and say a little kiss goodnight, and when she goes for your cheek, turn in and kiss her on the lips.
Never appologize for goinig for a kiss, you are the man and you desire her lips to touch yours.
If she doens't repsond in kind, give her a kiss on the cheek and wish her a good night.
A man never lets the circumstances dicate his mood, be the man and wish her a good night.
*** a good tip.... at the end of a date, ask for a kiss (point to your cheek and say a little kiss goodnight, and when she goes for your cheek, turn in and kiss her on the lips.
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Actually, in the right situation, it worked okay. Serious............Dannyrt34 said:As soon as you approach the girl for the first time. Let me know how that works.
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oakraiderz2
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After a reasonable amount of time aka the end of the first date...or during it. Well for me at least...thats how i roll.
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When you have escalated up to that.It's a big mistake to sit around and conteplate on how you're gonna kiss her or "waiting" for the right time and stuff like that -and not building any comfort/attraction in the process cause you'll be sitting there anxious .
Yeah like Gloriously says - don't sit around and plan the moment! Some guys says "It's ok to kiss when you drop her off after the first date" - hah! That's like saying "you should take a crap at 3pm every day" - I crap when I'm ready for it! Build the tension and when you got it up to the level it needs to be - kiss her. In clubs you can do this in less than 5 minutes if you had previous initial eye contact. Use subtle kino - her hands and arms, lower back. Lean in while speaking, lean in even more so your foreheads are touching. Touch her nose ever so gently with yours "by mistake" at first, smell her neck and voilá - you'll be kissing in no time and you wont even know how it happened.
Break down her defenses! Or rather, build up her expectations and level of comfort - you'll have a much higher sucess rate than if you go for "the kill" immidiately... Also: Have fun!
Break down her defenses! Or rather, build up her expectations and level of comfort - you'll have a much higher sucess rate than if you go for "the kill" immidiately... Also: Have fun!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When she'll reciprocate.John_Taylor said:For you, when do you think its okay to kiss the girl?
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When is it not okay?
Distant Light
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It depends but most of the time its when i get her isolated. But due to calibration sometimes I maybe be playing hard to get and I may not kiss her the first time or if she is real hot I will sometimes hold out.
All about calibration but I'd recommend to try and kiss a girl first time you ever get them isolated.
All about calibration but I'd recommend to try and kiss a girl first time you ever get them isolated.
diablo
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Good grief.
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