"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you've nexted a girl, do you still respond whenever she says hi to you first?

Demystify

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So I've been trying out the whole ignore thing with girls that won't give me a chance. The problem is that they'll often go out of their way to say hi to me in real life. And whenever I don't respond and ignore them it seems really really awkward. Plus they make it seem like a really awkward guy for ignoring them. So is it okay to say hi to a girl you've nexted?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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horaholic

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Absolutely. Be cordial, but distant.
 

Allurre

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Nothing wrong with saying Hi back. Women can change their MIND or PERCEPTION about who you are the next 5 minutes, or even next 24 hours.

Keep your doors open.
 
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