So I've been trying out the whole ignore thing with girls that won't give me a chance. The problem is that they'll often go out of their way to say hi to me in real life. And whenever I don't respond and ignore them it seems really really awkward. Plus they make it seem like a really awkward guy for ignoring them. So is it okay to say hi to a girl you've nexted?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When you've nexted a girl, do you still respond whenever she says hi to you first?
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