So I've been trying out the whole ignore thing with girls that won't give me a chance. The problem is that they'll often go out of their way to say hi to me in real life. And whenever I don't respond and ignore them it seems really really awkward. Plus they make it seem like a really awkward guy for ignoring them. So is it okay to say hi to a girl you've nexted?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When you've nexted a girl, do you still respond whenever she says hi to you first?
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