When your SO hates how they look conundrum

[MindPurify]

Any tips to help with when your partner is in that melancholic state of hating how they look (weight, acne or whatever it might be)?
It creates a lot of tension and gloom. I just need a bit of advice on how to help the situation - intimacy is near impossible during this period!

 

[marmel75]

Ask her what she is doing RIGHT NOW to actively change that. If her answer is nothing or some sort of excuse then tell her to start doing something to fix it or shut the hell up about it.

 

[old_skoolr]

Slap her ass and say "I'd tap that"

 

[marmel75]

Slap her ass and say "I'd tap that"

More like slap her ass and ride the wave?

 

[MindPurify]

More like slap her ass and ride the wave?

Haha that's probably more like it. Wouldn't want to be washed ashore..... or would I...?

 

[backseatjuan]

It would do you major good watching AMS vids, link

 

[zekko]

Just reassure her that she looks fine and change the subject.

 

[GT40]

More like slap her ass and ride the wave?

Yes. Positive re enforcement.
Always works to some degree.