Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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still go out? Can you game even when you're dead-tired, even when you look like Brad Pitt?

For instance, tonight I am so fvckin tired, but I think that I'm going out anyway to get a one-night stand (my sex probably won't be that great because I'm so fvckin tired).

So whaddya think? Is it possible to get a woman aroused when you're so fvckin tired? I'll just have to find out if it works or not when I go out in about 20 minutes. I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I work construction so I know where your at, good thing is you stay fit! have a few beers at home and a good sleep then go out tommorow instead.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I'll just have to find out if it works or not when I go out in about 20 minutes. I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.


I don't know how you do it man, basically when your worked out the max i m able to do is 1 -2 approaches a day and I try to max those out as best as I can because after 20 minutes of talking and trying to pick her up ,i m tired as hell.

Listen it works like this, i've done some chagnes to my diet , eating smaller meals more often, more protien and keeping a strict workout schedule has helped to max my energy but still life is tough for work/DJ

are you able to ONS fairly easily?
 

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Poonani Maker said:
still go out? Can you game even when you're dead-tired, even when you look like Brad Pitt?

... I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.
One night in Aspen I was out with 2 other guys, we got so drunk we lost track of each other. I ended up falling asleep with my head on the table. Shortly thereafter, I wake up with some girl tapping me on my back, "would you like to dance"? Sure I said, to make a long story short, she took me home that night. Anything is possible, you just never know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cool man. I've been to Vail several times, not Aspen, though.

I'll tell you what, I had the toughest day of my career yesterday (worked from 815 until 2115 without a single solitary break). The second toughest was last winter in 14 below temperatures without break for about 12 hours. The insanity of it all leaves me a little shell-shocked and in the state which attracts women from out of nowhere and in droves, but I'm sooo spent that any type of speech or "macking" is out of the question (I simply can't think beyond yea or nay when I'm that tired) so if she wants me then she's just gonna hafta get on all fours and let me in to do the damage cause that's all I'll be looking for in such a state and then rest. Of course, I wasn't about to go out last night. Tonight I'll go out. And God there's so many fine lasses out today in this excellent weather we're having. I'm sooo lust thirsty from having not had sex or masterbated for three weeks. My job just leaves me too tired to do fvckin anything or even think about about trying to get into a woman's pants. I think I'm just gonna go to a coffee shop and read the newspaper or something, and, see what I can catch by just Being there.
 

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Still dead from work. I mean everything that could go wrong went wrong today (not my fault of course, yet eating my time). Asking me to help others do their job, miscommunication, the sweltering sun, you name it; therefore, I can not go out tonight. I'd fall asleep in the b1tch's lap. Well, maybe I should go just to see what will happen when I'm looking like a beat-down dawg about to fall over. I think I'll just go have a look-see and try not to fall asleep. Or maybe I should just fall asleep right here, right now.
 

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hey crank, I've had a similiar thing happen once or twice, when it does, your totally amazed cuz you don't think that sh1t should happen. I just wish it would happen on days like today.
 

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Yeah going about anything with the mindset of doing it for reasons other than enjoyment is setting yourself up for failure. Going out with the 'doing a chore' mindset will most likely result in a wasted night. And it's true of anything, don't do something unless you are enjoying it. Whether it's a hobby you want a break from, or a few nights you'd rather spend quietly at home, don't force what you'd rather not do. You don't always have to be in the mood to do all of your favorite things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Nothing should be"

Except, y'know, actual chores :p
 

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I must say when I’m tired it's harder for me to care or be my usual enthusiastic self because obviously I’m tired and don't have as much energy as I would assuming I was not tired. It’s not impossible but just eat some food maybe rest for an hour or so and then go out.:cheer:
 

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just have a line of coke! Im joking, I got into drinking vodka and redbull, that wakes you up.
 

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englishman said:
just have a line of coke! Im joking, I got into drinking vodka and redbull, that wakes you up.
I was seriously considering that, and then maybe later on spreading some across her tities. I always tend to fall for the ones that got that "coke" attitude, I don't know why, girls who do coke just turn me on. It's as if they could get under the hood and do all the engine work on my car they're so tanked up and free and wild.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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