"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Poonani Maker

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still go out? Can you game even when you're dead-tired, even when you look like Brad Pitt?

For instance, tonight I am so fvckin tired, but I think that I'm going out anyway to get a one-night stand (my sex probably won't be that great because I'm so fvckin tired).

So whaddya think? Is it possible to get a woman aroused when you're so fvckin tired? I'll just have to find out if it works or not when I go out in about 20 minutes. I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I work construction so I know where your at, good thing is you stay fit! have a few beers at home and a good sleep then go out tommorow instead.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I'll just have to find out if it works or not when I go out in about 20 minutes. I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.


I don't know how you do it man, basically when your worked out the max i m able to do is 1 -2 approaches a day and I try to max those out as best as I can because after 20 minutes of talking and trying to pick her up ,i m tired as hell.

Listen it works like this, i've done some chagnes to my diet , eating smaller meals more often, more protien and keeping a strict workout schedule has helped to max my energy but still life is tough for work/DJ

are you able to ONS fairly easily?
 

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Poonani Maker said:
still go out? Can you game even when you're dead-tired, even when you look like Brad Pitt?

... I'm just gonna sit on my azz the whole night. Hell, I might even fall asleep sitting.
One night in Aspen I was out with 2 other guys, we got so drunk we lost track of each other. I ended up falling asleep with my head on the table. Shortly thereafter, I wake up with some girl tapping me on my back, "would you like to dance"? Sure I said, to make a long story short, she took me home that night. Anything is possible, you just never know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cool man. I've been to Vail several times, not Aspen, though.

I'll tell you what, I had the toughest day of my career yesterday (worked from 815 until 2115 without a single solitary break). The second toughest was last winter in 14 below temperatures without break for about 12 hours. The insanity of it all leaves me a little shell-shocked and in the state which attracts women from out of nowhere and in droves, but I'm sooo spent that any type of speech or "macking" is out of the question (I simply can't think beyond yea or nay when I'm that tired) so if she wants me then she's just gonna hafta get on all fours and let me in to do the damage cause that's all I'll be looking for in such a state and then rest. Of course, I wasn't about to go out last night. Tonight I'll go out. And God there's so many fine lasses out today in this excellent weather we're having. I'm sooo lust thirsty from having not had sex or masterbated for three weeks. My job just leaves me too tired to do fvckin anything or even think about about trying to get into a woman's pants. I think I'm just gonna go to a coffee shop and read the newspaper or something, and, see what I can catch by just Being there.
 

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Still dead from work. I mean everything that could go wrong went wrong today (not my fault of course, yet eating my time). Asking me to help others do their job, miscommunication, the sweltering sun, you name it; therefore, I can not go out tonight. I'd fall asleep in the b1tch's lap. Well, maybe I should go just to see what will happen when I'm looking like a beat-down dawg about to fall over. I think I'll just go have a look-see and try not to fall asleep. Or maybe I should just fall asleep right here, right now.
 

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hey crank, I've had a similiar thing happen once or twice, when it does, your totally amazed cuz you don't think that sh1t should happen. I just wish it would happen on days like today.
 

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Yeah going about anything with the mindset of doing it for reasons other than enjoyment is setting yourself up for failure. Going out with the 'doing a chore' mindset will most likely result in a wasted night. And it's true of anything, don't do something unless you are enjoying it. Whether it's a hobby you want a break from, or a few nights you'd rather spend quietly at home, don't force what you'd rather not do. You don't always have to be in the mood to do all of your favorite things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nothing should be"

Except, y'know, actual chores :p
 

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I must say when I’m tired it's harder for me to care or be my usual enthusiastic self because obviously I’m tired and don't have as much energy as I would assuming I was not tired. It’s not impossible but just eat some food maybe rest for an hour or so and then go out.:cheer:
 

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just have a line of coke! Im joking, I got into drinking vodka and redbull, that wakes you up.
 

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englishman said:
just have a line of coke! Im joking, I got into drinking vodka and redbull, that wakes you up.
I was seriously considering that, and then maybe later on spreading some across her tities. I always tend to fall for the ones that got that "coke" attitude, I don't know why, girls who do coke just turn me on. It's as if they could get under the hood and do all the engine work on my car they're so tanked up and free and wild.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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