"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When your girl at the time says she wants to b single....

drak_ool

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i hope everybody here realizes this is a thread about a "phone" girlfriend, who the OP has NEVER MET IN PERSON...

YoungSir, a lot of what you ve wrote makes you look pathetic. like why do you pick up on her when she calls you at 4am? and why do you keep talking about this as if your having a real relationship?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YoungSir4sho

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I realize this isnt a real relationship until i see her in person. We only seen each other pics. I picked up da phone cuz i was tired of her keep on callin me n wanted to see wat she was goin to say.

Listen i have alot of experience wit girls not jus phone relationships. im experimenting wit this one to see how to fix this. Trying to see where my mistakes are so this wont happen when i get into another relationship which will b a real one like my past ones
 
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