"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThunderMaverick

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??


And yes, to the original poster, she's not strong enough to hold out for you. She's a woman so of course she's going to get lonely. They see morality in a different light than us. She sucks some other guy's d!ck not because it was wrong, but because she was "lonely". She's going to be at parties with her class mates, she'll meet a nice guy who she'll be in class with for hours and they'll party a little bit. They'll get a little tipsy and he touches her leg and they flirt around a little bit.

But knowing your girlfriend she's LOYAL to the end, so she tells the guy even in her drunken stupor that she loves you and is soooo committed. He's a really understanding guy so he backs off, which makes him all the more attractive to her. The more she hangs out with this guy the less honest she'll be with her phone conversations with you.

YOU: Wha'd ya do all week?

HER: Just went to class (and flirted with the guy sitting next to her) that's it.

YOU: Did you meet anyone?

HER: NO it's only you baby. (she'll keep it short, any longer the guilt would set in. She won't break up with you first. She has to be sure she's going to **** her class mate.

Ahhh and then comes the next party. The more she forces to detached herself from you , the easier it is to slide her classmate's c0ck into her mouth.


HAHAHAHAHA

Ahh sorry to be so cynical man, but the vets are right. I've experienced it, as have they. She's no anomaly. You guys don't have anything special. She's just a girl. And she'll screw up. And she'll justify breaking your heart.

Just pull the plug. The relationship is about to be struck with a coma.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well.

the odds are she will cheat..either emotionally and probably physically.

its almost 99.9 percent certain.

The only chance of that not happening is if you both were jesus freaks....and since your here..I doubt that
 

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it's not even about odds.. it's just the simple fact that he is dating a figment of his imgination for 9 months. something he can't touch, feel, see or smell.

you are making life harder than it is.
 

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??
look at the advice given in this thread alone.. this place needs more than i don't need this place
 

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Last Man Standing said:
A principled virgin woman is with a man for a different reason than for sexual pleasure - so it does matter! If he is sexing her then that "barrier" has been crossed and there is no deterrent, based on her values/principles, to hold her back from experiencing sexual gratification from a different "member"!
Actually, if they have both a physical as well as an emotional relationship, it will be less likely that she'll stray. Eventually,.... just eventually, you're going to actually say something that's correct.

But, in either case, the odds are great that she will (stray) due to being physically separated (by distance), like backbreaker said.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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