"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ThunderMaverick

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??


And yes, to the original poster, she's not strong enough to hold out for you. She's a woman so of course she's going to get lonely. They see morality in a different light than us. She sucks some other guy's d!ck not because it was wrong, but because she was "lonely". She's going to be at parties with her class mates, she'll meet a nice guy who she'll be in class with for hours and they'll party a little bit. They'll get a little tipsy and he touches her leg and they flirt around a little bit.

But knowing your girlfriend she's LOYAL to the end, so she tells the guy even in her drunken stupor that she loves you and is soooo committed. He's a really understanding guy so he backs off, which makes him all the more attractive to her. The more she hangs out with this guy the less honest she'll be with her phone conversations with you.

YOU: Wha'd ya do all week?

HER: Just went to class (and flirted with the guy sitting next to her) that's it.

YOU: Did you meet anyone?

HER: NO it's only you baby. (she'll keep it short, any longer the guilt would set in. She won't break up with you first. She has to be sure she's going to **** her class mate.

Ahhh and then comes the next party. The more she forces to detached herself from you , the easier it is to slide her classmate's c0ck into her mouth.


HAHAHAHAHA

Ahh sorry to be so cynical man, but the vets are right. I've experienced it, as have they. She's no anomaly. You guys don't have anything special. She's just a girl. And she'll screw up. And she'll justify breaking your heart.

Just pull the plug. The relationship is about to be struck with a coma.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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frivolousz21

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well.

the odds are she will cheat..either emotionally and probably physically.

its almost 99.9 percent certain.

The only chance of that not happening is if you both were jesus freaks....and since your here..I doubt that
 

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it's not even about odds.. it's just the simple fact that he is dating a figment of his imgination for 9 months. something he can't touch, feel, see or smell.

you are making life harder than it is.
 

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??
look at the advice given in this thread alone.. this place needs more than i don't need this place
 

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Last Man Standing said:
A principled virgin woman is with a man for a different reason than for sexual pleasure - so it does matter! If he is sexing her then that "barrier" has been crossed and there is no deterrent, based on her values/principles, to hold her back from experiencing sexual gratification from a different "member"!
Actually, if they have both a physical as well as an emotional relationship, it will be less likely that she'll stray. Eventually,.... just eventually, you're going to actually say something that's correct.

But, in either case, the odds are great that she will (stray) due to being physically separated (by distance), like backbreaker said.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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