"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ThunderMaverick

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??


And yes, to the original poster, she's not strong enough to hold out for you. She's a woman so of course she's going to get lonely. They see morality in a different light than us. She sucks some other guy's d!ck not because it was wrong, but because she was "lonely". She's going to be at parties with her class mates, she'll meet a nice guy who she'll be in class with for hours and they'll party a little bit. They'll get a little tipsy and he touches her leg and they flirt around a little bit.

But knowing your girlfriend she's LOYAL to the end, so she tells the guy even in her drunken stupor that she loves you and is soooo committed. He's a really understanding guy so he backs off, which makes him all the more attractive to her. The more she hangs out with this guy the less honest she'll be with her phone conversations with you.

YOU: Wha'd ya do all week?

HER: Just went to class (and flirted with the guy sitting next to her) that's it.

YOU: Did you meet anyone?

HER: NO it's only you baby. (she'll keep it short, any longer the guilt would set in. She won't break up with you first. She has to be sure she's going to **** her class mate.

Ahhh and then comes the next party. The more she forces to detached herself from you , the easier it is to slide her classmate's c0ck into her mouth.


HAHAHAHAHA

Ahh sorry to be so cynical man, but the vets are right. I've experienced it, as have they. She's no anomaly. You guys don't have anything special. She's just a girl. And she'll screw up. And she'll justify breaking your heart.

Just pull the plug. The relationship is about to be struck with a coma.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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well.

the odds are she will cheat..either emotionally and probably physically.

its almost 99.9 percent certain.

The only chance of that not happening is if you both were jesus freaks....and since your here..I doubt that
 

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it's not even about odds.. it's just the simple fact that he is dating a figment of his imgination for 9 months. something he can't touch, feel, see or smell.

you are making life harder than it is.
 

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Backy B, I thought you were leaving this place for good??
look at the advice given in this thread alone.. this place needs more than i don't need this place
 

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Last Man Standing said:
A principled virgin woman is with a man for a different reason than for sexual pleasure - so it does matter! If he is sexing her then that "barrier" has been crossed and there is no deterrent, based on her values/principles, to hold her back from experiencing sexual gratification from a different "member"!
Actually, if they have both a physical as well as an emotional relationship, it will be less likely that she'll stray. Eventually,.... just eventually, you're going to actually say something that's correct.

But, in either case, the odds are great that she will (stray) due to being physically separated (by distance), like backbreaker said.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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