"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When You Want to Seek Advice

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instantnoodles

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There is one thing I want to say to anyone: STOP getting advice from MANY people. Think getting advice from 50 people a day will make your situation better? NO! The only person that can make it better is YOU. The more advice you get, the more confused you become and the more details you consume.

People can tell you anything to put you down or patch you up. Examples: b1tches who want information on your situation. Perhaps they know you and know your other friends. They just want gossip! I hate when guys ask their female friends for advice. They are not wise. They may have experience if they have dated in the past but where do they get their advice from? Frigging TWITTER! Cosmo Magazines! And stupid t.v shows like Sex and the City. Ugh! :down: Also, they don't give any helpful tips. Most of it is emotionally infused. For example: "OMG. She did that you...? Dump her!!!! Don't even bother to talk it out. It's not worth it. She hurt you :( Be butthurt and dump her." :cry:

Look how stupid that is. It's nothing that is helpful or wise. A smart person will advise you to work on yourself, maybe keep in low contact, etc.


Use your head and maybe talk to the person involved or the closest loved one ever. Limit the amount of people you talk to and keep it with in a secure, safe zone.

It's better to have a few best friends and consult family. That's wise :yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SgtSplacker

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You should never blindly follow anyone's advice, take what you can use and leave the rest here man.

And the stupidest thing a man can do is take dating advice from a woman. That should be like rule #2 or something.
 
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Don't forget that the majority of people are for themselves, and want you to fail / remain beneath them. Lotta people even get off on it - and using your weaknesses and failures against you AS you seek their advice and support. It makes them feel better about their own inadequacies, and they WILL push you in the direction of failure. Gotta be careful who you confide in, or seek advice from. People just love to define and judge others.
 
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