"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When You Want to Seek Advice

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instantnoodles

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There is one thing I want to say to anyone: STOP getting advice from MANY people. Think getting advice from 50 people a day will make your situation better? NO! The only person that can make it better is YOU. The more advice you get, the more confused you become and the more details you consume.

People can tell you anything to put you down or patch you up. Examples: b1tches who want information on your situation. Perhaps they know you and know your other friends. They just want gossip! I hate when guys ask their female friends for advice. They are not wise. They may have experience if they have dated in the past but where do they get their advice from? Frigging TWITTER! Cosmo Magazines! And stupid t.v shows like Sex and the City. Ugh! :down: Also, they don't give any helpful tips. Most of it is emotionally infused. For example: "OMG. She did that you...? Dump her!!!! Don't even bother to talk it out. It's not worth it. She hurt you :( Be butthurt and dump her." :cry:

Look how stupid that is. It's nothing that is helpful or wise. A smart person will advise you to work on yourself, maybe keep in low contact, etc.


Use your head and maybe talk to the person involved or the closest loved one ever. Limit the amount of people you talk to and keep it with in a secure, safe zone.

It's better to have a few best friends and consult family. That's wise :yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SgtSplacker

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You should never blindly follow anyone's advice, take what you can use and leave the rest here man.

And the stupidest thing a man can do is take dating advice from a woman. That should be like rule #2 or something.
 
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Don't forget that the majority of people are for themselves, and want you to fail / remain beneath them. Lotta people even get off on it - and using your weaknesses and failures against you AS you seek their advice and support. It makes them feel better about their own inadequacies, and they WILL push you in the direction of failure. Gotta be careful who you confide in, or seek advice from. People just love to define and judge others.
 
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