"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FatHairyM4F

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Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What matters what people's motivation is?
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
The motivation is the sex itself, not the conquest. Hell, I don't even tell my mates about my conquests unless they ask.

This is a weird thread man.
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.

sounds like you are a little angry.

if those are your 2 reasons you can try a hot escort. HB's, not matter how hot they are, are people too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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