Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FatHairyM4F

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Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What matters what people's motivation is?
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
The motivation is the sex itself, not the conquest. Hell, I don't even tell my mates about my conquests unless they ask.

This is a weird thread man.
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.

sounds like you are a little angry.

if those are your 2 reasons you can try a hot escort. HB's, not matter how hot they are, are people too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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