"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FatHairyM4F

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Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What matters what people's motivation is?
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.
The motivation is the sex itself, not the conquest. Hell, I don't even tell my mates about my conquests unless they ask.

This is a weird thread man.
 

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FatHairyM4F said:
Say you see this HB9 or HB10, who you've never seen before in your life until now, on the other side of the room at a club, or browsing at Blockbuster, or shopping at the supermarket. And say you decide you are going to try to get her to have sex with you....today. What is your motivation?

Is it just "I'm horny and I want to get my rocks off, and this would be a nice one to get my rocks off in"? Or maybe is it "this would be good bragging rights, this would be a good conquest, being able to bullsh!t this HB into thinking she wants to have sex with me. The fact that I got past this b!tch's defenses and got her to lay down and spread her legs for me, that I conquered her, that would be something only a real stud could do"?

Because if I had the ability to bullsh!t a woman into having sex with me, those would be my only 2 motivations.

sounds like you are a little angry.

if those are your 2 reasons you can try a hot escort. HB's, not matter how hot they are, are people too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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