That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Actually its travelgirls.com, basically you go on vacations together.I know the site you're on, love.mail.ru, I'm on it as well. There are plenty of prostitutes on, and I gotta filter them out. I now have an even bigger problem, I'm 37 and most of them have filter for 20-35, there is no way to message them at all. But other than that it's a cool site, that's where I mean my ass usually. Have no clue why you are on there though, most of those girls are from world apart from you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh sh1t. You're in a bad situation. Last girlfriend I had was traveling with a guy, and the guy paid for her vacation. I fvcked her, and stole her from him during their vacation. Women you looking at there, you gotta pay for their vacation, they already expect a beta provider. It's a contract man, just like women make contracts with betas, you get some lousy sex and fellatio in exchange for your money, some idiots don't get even that. So the site you're on is for prostitutes and not all of them want to admit that they are prostitutes.Actually its travelgirls.com, basically you go on vacations together.
How did that relationship work out for you?Oh sh1t. You're in a bad situation. Last girlfriend I had was traveling with a guy, and the guy paid for her vacation. I fvcked her, and stole her from him during their vacation. Women you looking at there, you gotta pay for their vacation, they already expect a beta provider. It's a contract man, just like women make contracts with betas, you get some lousy sex and fellatio in exchange for your money, some idiots don't get even that. So the site you're on is for prostitutes and not all of them want to admit that they are prostitutes.
Do classic OLD sites and apps in your area. Get your best pictures out, go out and take new pics if you have to, you will get some ass that way.
Why ask things that you already know an answer to.How did that relationship work out for you?
What couldve you done differently going back in time? Say you still had to be with her what would you have done to give it a shot of working out?Why ask things that you already know an answer to.It was a douche move on my part to get me a wife and settle down, that's what I want, because the age man, it's time. She had a kid, girl 13 years old, with big problems. It was all great, the sex was great, relationship was great, up until the time I took her to my city. Before that, there wasn't a single red sign, other than her kid, but I don't have experience with kids. That first night she turned 180 degrees the other way around. Everything changed, sex become lousy, 1 time a day or less, it become a must do for her, and not the way it used to be when we enjoyed it. Her attitude towards me changed. She saw me as beta provider and she treated me like that. Eventually she took all her sh1t and some of my sh1t and left. I find her ass that same day and got some of my stuff back and went cold after that. She come around several months later, I didn't make much of it. Then she called a few times, we chatted, I wasn't feeling her even for another fvck sometime. She knows she did wrong. I know not get women with children and allow more time for dating.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally, in my mind I thought I pay for my flight and split the hotel with whomever. But I have seen more of of the prostitute trend even though the website banns evidents of those accounts.Oh sh1t. You're in a bad situation. Last girlfriend I had was traveling with a guy, and the guy paid for her vacation. I fvcked her, and stole her from him during their vacation. Women you looking at there, you gotta pay for their vacation, they already expect a beta provider. It's a contract man, just like women make contracts with betas, you get some lousy sex and fellatio in exchange for your money, some idiots don't get even that. So the site you're on is for prostitutes and not all of them want to admit that they are prostitutes.
What OLD site? What about Ukrainian, I was thinking about visiting there anyway. I wanted to see chernobyl.Want a lot of sex and dates? Travel to Russia and go onto an OLD site with your best pictures. They will all be thinking a meal ticket out of the country, that's when you fvck and dump them. Just pick a city other than Moscow or St. Petersburg, because you won't be alone there. That girl you messaged, won't be asking 2000 to travel to your place, she will meet you at a bar right away.
Bad idea, because Ukraine is in some bad place economically. It was in bad shape before Americans organized a coup in 2014, now it's even in worst shape. People leaving that country for work. Women mostly leave for prostitution. If you want a prostitute that's a place to visit. Though, it is dangerous there, police don't work, and you have neo nazis roaming around. You can get killed in Ukraine. You better off visiting safe places, like Russia or Belarus.What about Ukrainian, I was thinking about visiting there anyway.