Ive been unoficailly going out with a girl for about 2 months and recently she wrote me a note asking if we were going to become an official couple, which i havent responed to (i dont do the note thing they can ask me themselves or get no answer) anyway she is alwayws busy with after school activities and we havent done anything outside of school for a while. One of the main reasons i think im starting to loose interest is because she wont do anything other than hold hands with me, and i have to do all the kino. After a while that has gotten pretty old, and if thats all im going to get out of this relationship then i dont want to bother. I still like her, and I know she likes me even more, but what do you guys thinkI should do to let her take a hint that im not happy. Should i just talk to her about it even though its not my style?
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When you start to loose interest??
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