Ive been unoficailly going out with a girl for about 2 months and recently she wrote me a note asking if we were going to become an official couple, which i havent responed to (i dont do the note thing they can ask me themselves or get no answer) anyway she is alwayws busy with after school activities and we havent done anything outside of school for a while. One of the main reasons i think im starting to loose interest is because she wont do anything other than hold hands with me, and i have to do all the kino. After a while that has gotten pretty old, and if thats all im going to get out of this relationship then i dont want to bother. I still like her, and I know she likes me even more, but what do you guys thinkI should do to let her take a hint that im not happy. Should i just talk to her about it even though its not my style?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When you start to loose interest??
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