"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
when you reject their LJBF attempt...
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
99% of the time I just ignore them forever and say a quick "hey" or whatever.
I think the real victory was knowing they hold no more power over me and I can laugh my ass off that they passed me up for some loser.
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
The fact is they rejected you first. Of course they act butthurt because you refuse to be their emotional tampon. She still won't bang you though. But she will try to get you as a beta orbiter.joker79 said:
Those are the facts.
Get equipped.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
HumbleNinja
Banned
joker79 said:
If you reject their LJBF to you and then they act cold and distant when you bump into them...
They're pissed even though they weren't attracted to you in a more than friends way because they were looking for a sychopant A.K.A an orbiter. You bruised their fragile ego due to you being the one of the many whom they expect to take their LGBF offer with a sh1t eating grin...but didn't.
If you see them? Just smile and say what's up. Don't come off effected by any negative actions or reactions as if whatever they do at that point effects you as they'll pick up the tension between you.
You may wind up talking again and who knows..They may change their minds. But don't hope, worry or count on it. And don't let them try svcker you into their original "offer".
If you get a feel they now want something as they couldn't make you their orbiter then go for it. If it's the same old nonsense they're pulling? Just keep it cordial, and keep it moving.
Or you could just ignore their nonsense period and keep it moving.