"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When you orgasm, do you make roaring noises?

Poonani Maker

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I've made some noises that may or may not scare a gf. Do you think it's a turn on for most women? I can't help it, roaring just makes the nut fuller and complete. I feel it coming on and I just start saying whatever pops in my mind, which MAY be belittling to her idk. I can't just be quiet when I orgasm, and refuse to remain quiet. In the shower it's really loud. When I know a woman Wants it BAD, from me, it just makes me louder. If she's not that in to it, I'd rather just not have sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This made me laugh because I remember Dr. Beard and Tiger Games

- comic_relief
 

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It does turn on women to hear a guy during sex. They definitely dont want silence. But Im not sure at what point it gets to be too much?

As a guy we love to hear the moans, whimpers, heavy breathing and any other noise she wants to make. Makes sense it would be the same for women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think thats a pretty big turn off for chicks.
 

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ROCK ON DUDE............let the neighbors know U are reaching the BIG O........I like it when chics scream!!!!.............
 

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The time I shared a house with a guy who I can only describe as a "bellowing fu*kpig" is not one I want to revisit!

It was interesting trying to "entertain" with him giving it his all next door and the time he finished a particularly noisy session whilst I was having a few beers with members of a soon to be very famous rock band was an experience I will never forget. The lady involved (who looked demure but had a good pair of lungs herself) got some brilliant comments with her autographs!

Me - a bit of noise but I won't have the neighbours asking for noise control orders. :D
 

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I've never been with a guy who was a "screamer", but feel free to groan, moan and say whatever! You'll be forgiven if teh sex is good!

The guys who are very quiet during sex are strange. Are they not having fun? Is their psycho ex wife listening at the window? MAKE SOME NOISE!
 

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I roar/grunt/moan, however one my describe it. I'm a rather expressive person anyway, so my face speaks more than words. And during sex, I just have to grunt when I buts a nut, because it just feels so good.

Totally silent chicks are boring! I like em when they scream(in moderation tho). I once had a chick scream my name so loud that I bursted in laughter.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TAKE IT!!!!!!
 

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Spartaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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im always told im quiet during sex but when i come they can tell due to the swearing
 
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