BongDuy
Master Don Juan
do you still talk to her? do you say hello to her in the hallways? :crazy:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When you next a girl in the same school...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
eaglez1177
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^exactly. Unless the chick was a b*tch, disrespected you, or any bad feelings between you to, theres nothing wrong with still being friendly around her.
JonDuan
Don Juan
errr no
next means next so probably not. if she did something bad / stupid enough for you to just want to be over her then why would you want to keep contact anyway?
next means next so probably not. if she did something bad / stupid enough for you to just want to be over her then why would you want to keep contact anyway?
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
if u next her then why the **** do u care wat she thinks
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Depends on why you next her in my opinion.
Why not say hi in the hallways and have a conversation with her is the question i ask you?
Lets look at the reasons why you would next a girl:
Stood you up a few times
Said LJBF
Cheated/hooked up with your best friend/something like that
Has big boyfriend lol
Just not your type/wanted a full relationship or something like that
completely humiliated you
or the most dreaded
You got attached or get attached to easy.
My point is really, never fully next a girl and stop contact completely unless your some easily attached AFC but also don't let it take up your time, why not have a flirty conversation or even say hi, it's not like it takes up a huge amount of time and it keep her knowing that your there it keeps you an option instead of completely closing your door shut. Girls change their mind all the time, one day you can be a friend next day her minds changed, one day she could want a full relationship the next day she just wants to be pounded.
My point is even if your hardly trying at all, it still gives you a 1% chance or even more. So why not?? what else you got to do with your time? Nothing? then why not.
Any holes a goal guys lol keep these holes open.
Why not say hi in the hallways and have a conversation with her is the question i ask you?
Lets look at the reasons why you would next a girl:
Stood you up a few times
Said LJBF
Cheated/hooked up with your best friend/something like that
Has big boyfriend lol
Just not your type/wanted a full relationship or something like that
completely humiliated you
or the most dreaded
You got attached or get attached to easy.
My point is really, never fully next a girl and stop contact completely unless your some easily attached AFC but also don't let it take up your time, why not have a flirty conversation or even say hi, it's not like it takes up a huge amount of time and it keep her knowing that your there it keeps you an option instead of completely closing your door shut. Girls change their mind all the time, one day you can be a friend next day her minds changed, one day she could want a full relationship the next day she just wants to be pounded.
My point is even if your hardly trying at all, it still gives you a 1% chance or even more. So why not?? what else you got to do with your time? Nothing? then why not.
Any holes a goal guys lol keep these holes open.